I Want My Wife Back, Break Up Was My Fault

By: Diana Onedge Click author's name for more of his/her articles

You messed up it and now saying, "I want my wife back, the break up was my fault!" Was it something bad that you did or kept on doing? Might of had it coming, then. You dug the hole and now can't get out. So are you going to just stay in that hole or are you going to try and climb out of it? If serious when you say, "I want my wife back" then you better get climbing and get a plan of action going.

It's important to learn and know this word, the word is "humility". Better believe that it is going to take some begging if you are going to get her back. You can't start feeling that you are too good to come back to her on your knees. If she is still mad, you probably deserve it.

The first thing to do is admit that you messed up. Don't make excuses for it and don't try to cover it up. If she starts telling you how bad it is, just agree with it. This is no time to try and defend yourself. Don't lie about it, you have to be honest. Lying will only get more trouble. Also, don't try and gloss over it saying it wasn't that big of a thing. If it cost you your marriage, then obviously it was a really big thing.

The second thing to do is not just tell her that you are going to do things better. You may have tried that before but didn't get any better. You have to make her believe it will be different this time . It will take action and more than words to get her to believe it to be different this time and that will be hard to do. If there is something that you did that you should stop doing then you probably need to take action and stop it now.

If you have a problem with drugs or alcohol, better go and get some professional help. You should be working on that before you start telling her that you are trying to change. If it has to do with anger issues, get enrolled in anger management classes and start taking them. Whatever problem it is she says you have, better take action and start making steps to get the problems fixed. If you really want your wife back you better get serious about making those changes and make them now.

This will take effort on your part and that is because it is hard work. You may think that you are ok the way you are but the way you are that caused the breakup with your wife to happen in the first place. The way you were wasn't good enough to keep the relationship happy.

Your ego may cause you to think that you are too good to do a lot of the things we talked about above but to get your wife back you need to lose your pride and learn about that word humility. Don't let your ego get in the way of doing what is needed to do to when you say I want my wife back. With effort you can get her back and your happy life back.

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