Multiple Orgasm is not Farfetched

By: Eustacie Matthews Click author's name for more of his/her articles

Every girl wants to experiennce her orgasm, but putting thoughts aside, not every woman can claim it.

A number of issues may rob them from experiencing one of nature's exhileriating feelings.

Who knows? It might be timidity, anxiety, having a man who doesn't know the ropes to bring on her orgasm, any number of issues dogging and preventing her from experiencing her big O.

However, whether you've got watermellons, honeydew mellons, grapefruits, or cantaloupe, on your chest, you can experience multiple orgasms.

Let Go Your Inhibitions

Now, this may be difficult to do because some pentup taboos you've carried over the years might've kept you in a bind to deny yourself from entering nature's playground--reaching your orgasm.

And these, whatever they might be, have kept you trapped in your own denial. Religious taboos, such as the justification of sex, may be chief among them.

Abandon these religious taboos, and let go your inhibitions to enjoy the super connected intimacy achieved only when every inhibition has been set aside.

Clitoral Stimulation

Girls have complained that their boyfriends don't know how to touch them down south to set off their O zones.

For years, I've been giving away an eBook with women's testimonies on how they'd climax if, and only if, their men knew how to touch them down south. The eBook was written especially for him. You can give it to him because he'll not only learn how to touch you down south, but he'll also learn how to bring you into the throes of the O zone.

The implication here is that some men don't know the ropes to bring on their women's orgasms, therefore, they'll have to be taught how to do it.

Disappointments often permeate these women's testimonies; so you may have to teach him how to touch you down south to get you off.

But that's not all he'll learn in that eBook; he also will learn how to raise your horny temperature, fire you up to experience multiple orgasm before he penetrates you.

And that brings to mind the preperation needed to cross the naughty threshold to get to that point.

Making Preperation

All guys are not the same and certainly don't think alike in an intimate hookup.

Many of us want to sprint to the finish line, unaware of our obligations to satisfy you first. We'll disregard your feelings, expectations for foreplay and want to jump right in and wahm! Bam! And we're done!

And I suspect that's sooooo disappointing.

On the other hand, some of us are mindful of your expectations. We want to bring you to the brink, so we'll learn a thing, or two, about your moan zone to satisfy you big time!

And to satisfy and prepare you with rub downs, kisses, massage, caress and erotic tease, his purpose is to pull out all the stips to bring you to the edge.

How does your man bring you to the edge?

If You've got Grapefruits, or Mellons

If you've thought about it, the objective is to cum together. ". . . climaxing within seconds of each other is one of the most gratifying sexual encounters you can have," says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of He Comes Next.

"It may be easier to peak during oral and manual because he's focused on your clitoris," says Ava Cadell, Ph.D, author of The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Oral Sex.

All that is good and you may see results, but I'll go further than just clitoral lick and penal contact to bring on your orgasm.

To be propelled in the throes of your O zone, let him work on two of your most sensitive areas. Depending on whether you've got a pair of grapefruits, watermelon, one of a variety of mellons, or a pair of guava, he should know how to set you on fire, fondling them.

He should be gentle when he's massaging your breasts, know how to encircle your breasts with feather-lite fingers and soft, sensuous kisses.

He should also know how to tease you by omission and intension, when to lick your nipples and when to refrain to create inticipation and get you hot.

Before long, you'll be begging for his entry. "Let him enter you only halfway in the beginning . . ." says kerner.

That's why foreplay is so important because his massaging your breasts and licking your tits will undoubtedly get you closer to the edge before he enters you.

And I wouldn't prevent my girl from mounting me cowgirl style. This works very well; I know because . . .

. . . after I'd gotten her close to the edge, my girl mounted me and began to ride cowgirl style. She wanted to control the pace and dictate the sexy moves she made on me.

She wants clitoral stimulation, as well, and I can tell you this: she always get what she wants.

All I know is that after she got the stimulation she wanted, by rubbing her clitoris in circular motion with me inside, her breathing became laborious and short.

There was a burst of energy and contortion of her face; she was climaxing. I almost couldn't hold her on top of me because she was jolting with excitement when she finally climaxed.

Immediately after she did, she fell asleep on top of me.

Was she satisfied? You bet! But I degress.

The Surge

His gentle touch, massage and tits lick should bring on a hot surge in you. That's when you'll know you've reached the point of no return, and all that's left to do is to pull him in.

If he's skillful at it, he'll tease you around the edges first before he plunges in.

As indicated above, he shouldn't sprint to the finish, but linger just at the entrance of your universe before he goes in.

You'll be glad he did.

So enjoy the big bang! of pleasure you want starting tonight.