Sugardaddy Dating: Thoughts on Jealous and Possesessive Men

By: Andrea Carless Click author's name for more of his/her articles

Jealousy is really a sign that the man truly loves a woman. He cherishes her and wants to protect her, which is the reason why he becomes jealous of a few things and a few people. But what happens when those "few" things and people get more and more? That's the time that jealousy is not productive anymore.

As the woman in the relationship, you need to watch out for these warning signs to find out if your partner is not the "gentleman" he is setting out to be:

1. Too much determination to spend more and more time with you. This in itself is not a bad thing. Which hot-blooded male would not want to spend more time with you? However, alarm bells should start ringing in your head if he insists on spending more and more time with you that it eats up your time with your buddies and friends offline. If your work ends at 5, he'll insist on chatting with you on the dot. He'll ask you why you were late and who you were with, then at what time did you exactly get out of work, and how much time you spent on travel. In brief, he's checking up on you. By making sure that you know he's waiting will pressure you to go back home ASAP and go online with him.

2. Too much involvement with your social life. He keeps on insisting that you introduce all of your friends and relatives to him. When he sees you chatting or talking with someone he was not introduced to, then will get irrationally angry and demand who is on the other line. Why does he do this? To put it simply, he's worried that you'll dump him for that "guy" on the phone or chatroom. He doesn't have love for himself, so he's going to constantly ask why someone as great as you would love him and would constantly fear that you will leave him. He would show and say how your friends act as bad influences, and it would do better for you to dump them and spend more time with him.

3. Too much involvement with what you wear. As women, we almost have a 6th sense for fashion. We always try to look our very best when we go out, right? Even if we're only meeting someone through the web cam. This is when you can first discover that he is jealous and possessive. How? He will try to influence you and the way you dress. He will insist that you change into something else if he sees you wearing a particular set of clothes. He will insist that you can't wear certain shorts, skirts, and your jeans, and will insist that you let him know all of the outfits that you will wear. If this happens, then tell your guy gently, that you are comfortable with your clothes and you will wear what you want and he'll have to live with it. But again, say this gently, so as not to arouse an even bigger monster inside him: anger. He will also start attacking your self-esteem little by little, making criticisms on how you look in certain outfits, and then telling you that you should feel lucky that a girl like you has a millionaire match like him. Do not believe this. You are an extremely beautiful woman inside and out, and he's the one who's lucky that he has you.

It always feels great for a woman to feel loved, cherished, and wanted; and a little show of jealousy is a good indication. However, it has to have its limits and should be kept in control.

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