Top Tips To Attract Women - By: Gladys Alvarez

When you see a woman you are attracted to, what do you do? Do you stand there and stare, trying to muster the courage to approach her or do you run and hide? How do you approach a woman and not appear desperate. When it comes to approaching women, the majority of men over-think what they want to say which is a mistake. Be confident, it's that confidence that will attract the women to you.

Forget the one-liners. Pick-up lines rarely, if ever work. Use your surroundings to your advantage. If it's a hot day outside, comment about the weather. If you comment about the immediate situation it will not seem out of the ordinary, it shows that you are not being desperate, and it opens up the line of communication.

When a woman sees you approaching, don't hesitate. A woman will loose interest if you hesitate she will know you are not confident. Maintain eye contact as you approach her. Keeping eye contact lets women know that you feel confident, and are not feeling desperate about your actions and will be immediately drawn to you.

Try not to fidget. Do not fidget. This is a symptom to a wowman that you are not comfortable. If you appear uncomfortable, she will also feel uncomfortable, resulting in an awkward first encounter.

Once the approach has been made and the conversation has started, listen. Give her your full attention, do not allow what is happening around you to distract you. Women appreciate men who pay attention to them, rather than to what's going on around them. Make sure your responses are relevant to the topic at hand because random words tossed out will cause her to lose interest.

Don't come on too strong. A first meeting should never include the phrase, 'our future together'. Your primary goal is not to appear desperate. So be yourself. So, keep the conversation to general chit chat. Your stance is important as well. Be respectful of her personal space, do not crowd her, it will make her feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable. By respecting her personal space and bounderies, she will appreciate it and it will help her to relax.

To approach women the correct mindset to have is, "I wonder if she is my type?" So instead of having an anxiety-induced pick-up mindset, you are simply qualifying this woman as a person. Is she someone worth getting to know? Is she funny? Is she a great conversationalist? This is the frame of mind you should adopt when meeting women.

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