Here the most common mistakes men make with women during the early stages of dating and beyond. I am not going to pull any punches in this article. Anything less would be a disservice to you as this information could make a real difference in your relationships.
Spend a huge amount of money on the first date.
This is one of the most common mistakes. There's a number of reasons why this is a bad idea. (1.) You don't know if you're ever going to see her again after the first date. You may find that you don't like her or that there's no chemistry once you've had an opportunity to get to know her. Or she may not like you. If any of these things is the outcome, and it frequently is on the first date, you've wasted a huge sum of money. (2.) You can find out a lot about a woman by deliberately spending a small amount of money on the first date. If she appears to enjoy your company regardless of where you go, then she's a woman who doesn't expect or demand to be taken to expensive places. If she does, I guarantee you that she will be that way in every area of your relationship. She's a spender who expects you to spend a lot of money on her. (3.) Many women will see you as being a fool if you spend a large amount of money on the first date. And she'll more likely respect you if you do the opposite.
Act like someone they are not.
This is the most common behavior of all, especially after a few drinks. Women put on their best act as well, but they don't do it to the degree that men do. Without a doubt, your best act is being yourself. If you start a relationship playing role that's not you, when does it end? It's a lot of work being something you're not. And it's a waste of time. Do you want a woman to fall in love with a character you're pretending to be or you? Your best performance will come by just being yourself.
Pressure a woman to have sex before she's ready.
There's no benefit to pressuring a woman to have sex except selfish momentary sexual gratification. Notice I didn't say "sexual fulfillment" as this only happens when both parties are fully willing and involved. If you pressure a woman to have sex before she's ready, she won't enjoy it, she may come to resent you, or she may even come to see that act as rape! Real men do not pressure women to have sex. They wait until she's ready.
Yield to her mean approach to getting what she wants.
It's amazing how many women get this wrong. I love sharing this wise tale. "If a woman moans at her man long enough, he will eventually build her a house. But if she inspires him through respect and praise, he will build her a castle!" So true, isn't it. If you yield even once, you'll continue to receive this treatment until you take a stand and refuse to respond when a bitching strategy is used. It's best to confront this behavior early on by telling her you don't like to be bitched at and you will not respond to it.
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